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  • April30th

    No News

    Author: Mary Beth | Posted in: Adoption

    No news on baby Josiah yet (by the way, that’s what we’ve named him, Josiah means “God will save”). We’re still waiting to hear when our court date will be.

    In the meantime, Josiah should be getting a little treat in the mail someday soon. We sent him a picture book with pictures of the special people who are waiting to love him. Hopefully, the picture book will help us to look a little bit familiar to him when we show up to take him home. If nothing else, he will get to hold something that his mommy made for him. I tried to print the Amharic words for Mommy and Daddy, etc., under the English words; I hope I got it right.

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    This weekend my sweet momma is at the Christian Alliance for Orphans Summit in Dallas. I’m kind of jealous. Wish I could have gone too. I can’t wait to hear all of the things that she learns. She’s promised to try to meet up with some Ethiopia adoption people while she’s there.

    Here at the Picker house, we are gearing up for our second big adoption garage sale next weekend. We have had so many wonderful friends and family donate stuff for our sale. Right now my garage is so full, I can barely walk through it. Last week when we went to visit some of Casey’s family, we had to rent a U-haul trailer to bring home all of the stuff they gave us.

    We are so thankful for all of you! We couldn’t make it through this process without your prayers and support. Thank you!!!

  • April27th

    Guess Who’s Three!

    Author: Mary Beth | Posted in: Home Life & Family

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    Today is my sweet little boy’s third birthday. Where did the time go? It feels like only moments ago he was a tiny little baby. Now he’s a big, loud, sweaty boy! I am so in love with my little guy and so incredibly blessed to be his momma. I wish I could describe him for you, but all I can say is that he is exactly what a three-year-old boy should be. He loves running and splashing and getting dirty, but he also loves bringing flowers to his momma and cuddling on the couch.

    As an example of his cute personality, I’ll tell you about our trip to the farm this week. Caleb has been fascinated with all things trucks and cars for a while now, but this week he found a new love . . . the Rhino. We went to visit some of Casey’s family at the big family farm where Casey’s mom grew up and where all of her family still lives. It’s always fun to visit the family, but Caleb especially enjoyed this visit. Casey’s Uncle Kirk has a Rhino that he uses to get around the farm and take care of his chickens, etc. He was kind enough to let us ride around in it some, and Caleb is absolutely smitten. He even prayed for the Rhino the night we were there.

    The day that we left happened to be chicken selling day at the farm. Casey’s uncle raises chickens and was selling probably around 60,000 chickens while we were there. Pops took Caleb over to watch the chickens being loaded into trucks. Caleb watched as the wranglers herded the chickens into crates and stacked them up on big semi trucks (I’m sure you’ve seen these chicken trucks on the interstate before). Caleb watched quietly for a few minutes and then said to Pops, “Chickens having a bad day!”

    Here’s a picture of Caleb with Daddy and some cousins in the back of the Rhino.
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  • April10th

    Sunday’s Coming…

    Author: Casey | Posted in: Spiritual

    Praise the Lord that Friday wasn’t the end!

  • April7th

    REFERRAL!!!

    Author: Mary Beth | Posted in: Adoption, Home Life & Family

    We are overwhelmed, blessed, and absolutely overjoyed to announce that we have received our referral! Monday evening, I got a call from Holt telling us that they had a baby boy waiting for us. He is 2 1/2 months old and itty bitty, but absolutely precious! My arms are already aching for him!

    I got the call Monday evening at 5:30 that our agency would be e-mailing us his pictures and information to review. Sure enough, the e-mail popped right up on my account. Then I had to wait an excruciating fifteen minutes for Casey to get home so we could see the pictures of our son together.

    I think we were both in disbelief for several hours. We weren’t expecting a referral until May or June at the earliest. After our agency had told us many times to expect a 6-9 month wait for an infant, I can’t believe we got our referral in a little over four months! We are praising God for his wonderful faithfulness and perfect timing!

    We are still working on a name for our baby boy because we thought that we still had a few months to think about it. We will use part of his Ethiopian name as his middle name, but we want to give him a new first name. We’ll let you know as soon as we decide.

    So what’s next? Now we will wait for our court date, which will hopefully be assigned in the next few weeks. Usually the court dates are scheduled 2-3 months in advance, so we are hoping for a June court date. If we pass court the first time, we will be able to pick up our son three or four weeks after the court date. If not, we will have to wait for a second court date. So please pray for an early court date and that we will pass the first time.

    Unfortunately, we can’t post pictures of our little guy on the internet until he is legally our son. But here is a video of Caleb sharing the good news with Daddy.

    And here is a picture of Caleb seeing his baby brother for the first time. And Roger and Abby, if you’re reading this, I just happened to be wearing my 7,990 shirt that day.

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    Thank you so much, all of our dear family and friends, for your prayers and support over the last several months. Please continue to pray for our little guy; we know God is answering our prayers!

  • April3rd

    No TV?!?

    Author: Casey | Posted in: Parenthood

    386px-no-tvsvgMary Beth and I have always tried to carefully limit the amount of TV that Caleb watches, but still too often find ourselves using the TV to give us a break from parenting. I recently read a blog post about some parents who found themselves too far down that road and how they struggled to change their family habits.

    She made an interesting point about how TV can rob us from doing the things that God wants us to do with our time. We want our family to try and have a very balanced approach to our entertainment habits because we think God wants us to enjoy some time off every now and then, but He doesn’t want it to consume all of our time. What do you think?

    Read more about this family’s struggle with their TV watching habits.

  • April1st

    Four

    Author: Mary Beth | Posted in: Adoption

    fourThis week marks the end of our fourth month of waiting for a referral. Here’s to hoping we are more than half way there. The good news is that in mid-February we were #18 on the waiting list, and I found out today that we are now #9!! There’s no way to tell how quickly the next referrals could come in, but we are hoping to have one maybe in June or July.

    Thank you for your continued prayers for our little guy. We can’t wait to see his face!