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Two Problems

Posted by Mary Beth on Monday, January 18th, 2010

So we’re finally settling in from our recent move over here at the Picker House.  We are feeling very happy and very blessed.   We love our new house; we have lots of room, lots of yard space, and even more toys.  In fact, there’s another thing we have lots of around here:  BOYS. BOY [...]

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REFERRAL!!!

Posted by Mary Beth on Tuesday, April 7th, 2009

We are overwhelmed, blessed, and absolutely overjoyed to announce that we have received our referral! Monday evening, I got a call from Holt telling us that they had a baby boy waiting for us. He is 2 1/2 months old and itty bitty, but absolutely precious! My arms are already aching for him! I got [...]

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Big News . . .

Posted by Mary Beth on Wednesday, September 3rd, 2008

We’ve been waiting for weeks to share our big news, and the time has finally come. After tons of prayer and thought, and sharing and praying with the people closest to us, we have decided to adopt a baby boy from Ethiopia. Ever since I went with my parents to adopt my little sister from [...]

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Just a little post about Caleb . . .

Posted by Mary Beth on Monday, March 9th, 2009
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2img_4005I have piles of laundry to fold and iron, book-keeping to do, and dishes to wash, but today I want to write about Caleb.

I cannot imagine a cuter kid. He makes us laugh all the time. His favorite things right now include playing soccer with Daddy, listening to “George music” (aka Jack Johnson’s Curious George soundtrack), and playing with his many stuffed animals (especially the Chip and Dale that Daddy bought him in Orlando, the Larry that Aunt Laura and AnnaBelle gave him, and, of couse, the old favorite, Curious George). He is talking our ears off now! He talks constantly about anything and everything. The other day he was walking around the house saying, “I’m going to work on the computer to build a website.” His vocabulary seems to have doubled lately; there is little that he can’t explain or ask for.

Over the last few weeks, he has started to pretend a lot more. He likes to pretend that he is Curious George, or Larry the Cucumber, or Christopher Robin, or Mickey Mouse. Of course, if he is George, or Larry, or Christoper Robin, or Mickey, then Casey and I have to fill the complementary rolls of “the man with the yellow hat,” or Bob the Tomato, or Winnie-the-Pooh, or Goofy. And, naturally, all of the actors have to be prepared to change character at a moment’s notice. One minute, I think that I am Minnie Mouse, and I am acting my heart out when I am suddenly informed that I am actually Junior Asparagus! I am certainly getting the chance to polish my nearly non-existent acting skills.

Caleb also loves to read books, which, of course, is one of my greatest desires for my children. He will sit through as many books as we will read to him. For such an active and crazy almost-three-year-old, his attention span is really great when it comes to books. In the past we have mainly read picture books with plenty of bright colors to keep his focus, but just this past week I started reading to him The House at Pooh Corner by A. A. Milne. There aren’t as many pictures in this book, and sometimes there will be two or three pages with no pictures at all, but he is still content to sit in my lap and listen to the stories, which are much longer, with more character development, than most little children’s books.

Some of my favorite childhood memories are of my daddy reading novels out loud to our whole family. Because I have two brothers, I was forced to sit through Kidnapped and Treasure Island, but he also read Silas Marner and others. There is something so beautiful about hearing the words of a story spoken out loud and imagining it in your mind instead of being fed someone else’s interpretation through their images.

I hope that Caleb will continue to develop his attention span and wonderful imagination. Casey and I already have a long list of books that we are eager to read aloud to him when he is ready. He is such a wonderful blessing; we are cherishing every moment of being his parents.

Just another little moment that I want to remember: Several nights ago I crept into his room while he was sleeping to pray for him. We had had a rough day, and, after he went to bed, I spent the evening flipping through parenting books, trying to figure out what I was doing wrong. While I was praying by his bed, I was having one of those anxious parenting moments, wondering if he is going to grow up to know what is right and to love God, or if I am completely ruining him with my own flaws. As I prayed over his life and his future, in his sleep, Caleb began to sing out loud, “God of wonders, beyond our galaxy, You are holy! Holy!” Wow! It brought tears to my eyes and gave me peace over all my anxious thoughts. I felt like God was reminding me that Caleb’s soul and future are in His hands, and not mine. What a relief! What a blessing to get to watch this little soul fall in love with God!

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  • Hi, Mary Beth --
    This is Abby FINALLY getting back to you about our 7,990 t-shirt. Sorry it's taken so long. Unfortunately, we're out of medium-sized shirts right now, which is what you'd wear, but I can let you know as soon as we get some more ordered. They come in gray and red. Due to the cost, we are not able to personalize the miles for others who live in a different town/state, although that would be fabulous if we could. Email me at abbylynn29@yahoo.com if you're still interested in a shirt and I'll let you know as soon as we get them in. It usually only takes about a week or so. Thanks for your interest and it's so nice to hear/"meet" you! It's also nice to know someone on our timeline. Most of our "Ethiopia" friends are either receiving referrals right now or bringing their kiddos home, which is totally great and excting yet makes me think of how much longer we have to wait. Now I have someone to wait with! I look forward to hearing from you!
  • momma
    Oh Mary Beth, I've said so many prayers just like yours over the years. God has been faithful to fill in gaps left by my own weaknesses. I'm thankful for you and Casey and the dedication you bring to parenting Caleb. He is a joy to be with!
  • Grammie
    Caleb is indeed a special boy! I can't wait to see what he does as he grows up!!

    You and Casey are always in my prayers as you raise Caleb to be a man after God's own heart!

    We are so excited to come see you next month for Caleb's birthday!!
  • Mema
    He is such a precious little boy. We enjoyed so much having you and Caleb and your mother here. We have missed so much not getting to be around him more. He is very good and I feel he already loves God.
    I know with the teaching you and Casey will be doing, the rest of his time at home, he will be close to God. He might even be a preacher.

    I love you. Hope you are feeling better.
    Mema
  • Pops
    God does so much of His wonderful work through His people. As Caleb's parents, God is doing a mighty work through you. If what you are doing is "completely ruining him"...then I'd say we need to ruin a whole generation just like him. But then again...I am his Pops!
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